Tao of dating ebooks
I believe that smart, successful women should have it all -- both a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. They either couldn't find the right guy, were with the wrong guy, had relationships that didn't last, or ha I believe that smart, successful women should have it all -- both a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. They either couldn't find the right guy, were with the wrong guy, had relationships that didn't last, or had given up on dating entirely.
Strength is great, but remember that femininity is what draws in the masculine. And when she finally found a guy who smarter than her, she found herself competing with him and putting him down out of insecurity, thereby driving him away. So much pain in dating is self-inflicted and has to do with upholding our own importance or appeasing the ego.
Even the Bible has something to say about that: "For he that hath, to him shall be given: and he that hath not, from him shall be taken away even that which he hath." Seems kind of mean, but it's just the way of the world: wealth begets wealth. Because even if only one thousandth of one percent of the 6.5 billion people in this world are cool enough to be eligible for your companionship, that's, oh, 65,000 folks. To be able to take care of anyone else, you need to take care of you first. As a man, if you take on too much yin, you risk turning into an indecisive wimp, which is not necessarily appealing to women.
So even if you don't have a companion, act as if there is an unlimited supply of what you want available to you already. That's enough dates to tide you over for a whole month. Simple, totally non-negotiable, and often neglected. 'Interest' means that you're signing up for your fulfillment and joy, not your pain. Having an open heart is great; just remember to keep your spine also.
The plan is simple: first, figure out who you really are and what you really want.
Then find a man, attract him and keep him in your life. Also in there: the Magic Question; the Tiered Approach; the 3 ways to make a man fall in love with you; Rejection-Proofing; and the Passion Formula.