When to start dating after divorce with kids
Perhaps you met someone you are compatible with but wonder when you should introduce them to your kids.
I've sat by and watched many of my friends and clients introduce their new partner to their children too quickly after their divorce -- only to observe the relationship crash and burn after a brief period of time.
There's also the issue of territory — it's his house, you're his mom, this date is not his dad.
“Schedule initial dates on days when the children are with the other parent or hire a baby sitter; and vet dates to make sure you are always safe and sound!
” “Keep it light until you’re sure the new love is really, truly the love of your life before including him or her in serious family matters and important events,” Woll said.
If he's really put off by the idea of you dating a man other than his father, explain that you're making new friends, just like he does when he's in a new situation.
Try to maintain your usual routines with your son so that your dating doesn't disrupt his day-to-day life and he still has lots of time with you.